Words - Be Careful

It's been nearly a month since I last posted on the blog. There has been so much happen since then. I really have only one excuse, procrastination. Can that be an excuse? Oh well, at least it is a reason.

I was able to perform a wedding yesterday. As I spoke to the young couple and gave them my "charge," I said something that resonated with me in a particularly striking way. Yes, God even speaks to the preacher when he is in the pulpit. I said, "You both are starting with a clean slate today. You have the opportunity to make your marriage whatever you desire it to be. What your marriage will become will be determined by the choices you make." I know, not really profound, right? What struck me so strongly though is the fact that many of the little decisions we make ultimately work together to change the course of a marriage. Little choices can make major directional shifts. The Bible says says in James chapter three that great ships are turned about by very small helms. The little choices in life can make major directional changes.

The other day I was floating around in our backyard pool. The pool is not big enough to swim in but the kids enjoy it. I was lying on a float and just drifting around with the currents from the pump. The gentle breeze would push me one way or another. I found that if I stroked the water one time I could change the direction that my float was going. It did not take a lot of force. I was not thrashing around. Just a little push of the water and I was going in a different direction.

This reminded me of our marriages. We often say or do something while in an emotional state that we later regret. Sometimes we react (in an ungodly way) rather than respond (in accordance to the Spirit) and we later regret that reaction. It does not take much to change the attitude and atmosphere of the home.

I often remind our church family that once words flow from our mouths no matter how sorrowful we are, we cannot take them back. Our spouses may choose to ignore them or forgive us but the damage is already done. Be careful what you say and how you say. The Bible teaches us that "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver." What this means is the right word, at the right time, given with the right motivation ministers grace and blessing.

We all could use a little more temperance and self control in our relationships. Remember the Bible also says that it is the little foxes that spoil the vine!

Pray For This Church

Yesterday, a tragedy struck Colonial Hills Baptist Church in Indianapolis, Indiana. A bus carrying many children and adults over turned on the interstate and crashed. Three people were killed and many were injured. The press released two of the names of the deceased, Chad and Courtney Phelps, the youth pastor of the church and his wife. The bus was returning from a week long youth camp in Michigan and was only a mile or so from home.

As believers we know God is control and has a purpose for allowing this tragedy. We know those who died in the Lord are with God in heaven. Let us pray for God's healing grace to cover this church family.

The Problem With Kids Leaving the Church

I saw this article posted by a pastor friend and thought I should repost. There are a lot of good points made by the author. To all my church going friends, please take the time to read it.

http://www.churchleaders.com/youth/youth-leaders-articles/159175-3-common-traits-of-youth-who-don-t-leave-the-church.html

God Bless America

I recently posted this on my Facebook page and thought I would post it here because some do not use Facebook.

Having lived in another country for nearly thirteen years, I still believe America is the greatest country on earth. She is not perfect, never was. She is not Christian, never was. (A country cannot be "Christian" but only stand for Christian principles. In 313AD Constantine tried to make a Christian nation and it was a mess.) What makes America great is her nobility. Where is all the foreign aid when disaster strikes within the shores of our nation? It never comes. America is always the first to send funds to other countries when disaster strikes there. America has extremely generous immigration laws, but they are laws to be followed. Try gaining residency in a foreign country! This is truly the land of opportunity. For the most part, if a person is willing to work he can find work enough to feed his family. If you desire to hate on America, I suggest you move to another country for a while. You will come running back and kiss the ground. God bless America!

A Father's Life

I just finished a week of volunteering at a classical guitar music festival here is Houston. This is my second year doing this. My son competes in this festival each year and has done very well. This year he placed second amidst some very stiff competition. Part of my duties this year was to be back stage to proctor the competitors before they performed. I would announce each one prior to their entry on stage.

As a father, I will admit my prejudice. Our son, JB, played extremely well. Maybe the best I have ever heard him. It brought tears to my eyes, literally. I had a lot of time to reflect on the week and here are some of my thoughts (a bit random maybe).

Wow, that is my son? - Musical abilities run in our family a little. My wife was first chair violinist in her high school orchestra. My oldest son plays a variety of instruments. My daughters have some skills on the piano. My youngest son is doing well taking cello lessons. I have played guitar since I was about ten years old and currently am going through my second childhood learning to play the ukulele. So music runs in our family, but wow, not like this. JB has exceeded all of us.

What a roller coaster of nerves. - There was so much tension in the air surrounding the competition. I remember playing sports when I was a kid. I used to get so nervous before a big baseball game or a wrestling match I thought I was going to throw up. I could see the nerves visibly on all the competitors faces as they were preparing to go on stage to compete. It was amazing to see how they were able to get the nerves under control and perform with such silky smooth ease. Hats off to them all.

My son has a gift from God. - JB only started playing the guitar back in 2007. He started out teaching himself off the internet. Very soon after he was able to find a teacher locally that really made a huge difference in his playing. Whether she (Valerie) knows it or not she is a gift from God as well. Its been said that we are what we are because of the people we meet. Some impact us negatively and some positively. Its up to us to choose which way we allow people to influence us. I am thankful that JB has been able to take the good from the people he has met in life and rise above the negative. Many have wasted the gifts given them. My prayer is that JB will not.

Pray for Suburban Baptist Church in Moore, OKlahoma

Storms have ravaged the midwest. Oklahoma has been hit particularly hard at least three times in the past two weeks. No sooner had folks there gotten things dried out when another storm would dump 7-8 inches of rain on them again. The loss of life from the tornadoes has been staggering. It seems almost surreal that that area would be hit three times in such a short period of time. I am sure the good people of Oklahoma must be asking themselves many questions. Why us? When will it end? How are we going to get through this? Are there more dangers ahead?

I have been in contact with a sister church, Suburban Baptist Church, in Moore, Oklahoma. We will be sending an offering directly to them to help seven of their church families who have been devastated by the storms. I know that what we will be able to send will only be a drop in the bucket compared to what is needed. Some have lost all their possessions. We trust that God will use our token to bless these dear folks. By God's grace, none of their church suffered any fatalities. 

If anyone would like to donate to these seven families feel free to send a check to the church and we will forward it on with our offering. You can contact me at info@thechurchatkaty.com and I will let you know how to send any donations.

This week I would like to focus on another church member, Dan Rebsch.


Through Bill Gothard’s Basic and Advanced Seminars, the Holy Spirit worked in my heart by showing me the truth of His Word. I had never received so much Biblical truth as I received at those seminars. When I realized that the religion I was following was teaching a different doctrine than that of the Bible’s, I made a salvation profession to Jesus, left that other religion and began a new life in Christ. I have never looked back or regretted that decision even though it cost most of our friends and family members at the time. 

Dan & Granddaughter Melissa

I like to make time in my schedule for staying in shape by running and weight training. I usually run three miles at Memorial Park 2-3 days a week during lunch. I do my own weight training at home in my garage also 3 days a week. 

I enjoy teaching the adult Sunday school class because I love to research Biblical topics which broaden my understanding of God and His word. I love any type of in-depth scripture learning. As Pastor’s deacon, I enjoy being able to serve him and the church in areas of leadership and assistance. One of my other favorite church related functions would be when we have missionaries come in and present their ministries. Since one of my daughters is a full-time missionary wife in Ukraine and my other daughter was on the foreign mission field before marrying a young pastor, I have a soft spot in my heart for missions. 

At The Church at Katy, I serve as deacon with responsibilities for keeping the missionary bulletin board, purchasing all the church supplies used on Sundays and for special events, teaching Sunday school, setting up the church weekly, and keeping Pastor in line. :>) Outside of my church responsibilities, I, along with my wife, do an outreach to the Chinese on Friday nights. The group is known as the American Chinese Fellowship (ACF) and my wife and I teach a beginners Bible study every other Friday. 

Jesus Loves Me This I Know

"Are not five sparrows sold for two farthings, and not one of them is forgotten before God? But even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not therefore: ye are of more value than many sparrows." - Luke 12:6,7

Have you ever wondered why you are here? What is the purpose for your existence? Does your being here really make a difference?

These are all questions many of us have asked ourselves at one time or another. Usually we contemplate these deep things when we are discouraged or upset, when we are going through a difficult time in our lives. It is this mindset that opens us up to thoughts of despair and gloom. We tend to feel sorrow for ourselves when life gets difficult as though no one else has been where we are:as; if our trial or burden is greater than what others have faced.

I don't intend to minimalize your burdens or trials. Whether they be large or small, they are personal to you and therefore important. It helps, however, to keep a proper perspective on things.

"There hath no temptation taken you but as is common with man." - 1 Cor 10:13

This verse teaches that whatever you may be going through others have as well. The verse goes on the tell us that God is faithful to make a way for us to bear up under the trial and come out victorious.

God promises us that he will never leave us nor forsake us (Heb 13:5). He also promises that no good thing will he withhold from us (Psa 84:11).

We are taught a song in church from a very young age. "Jesus loves me this I know, for the Bible tells me so." What a thought. The creator of the entire universe cares about ME! Wow.

So the next time you feel discouraged or down, remember, God loves you (more than many birds).